Mood:  not sure

Hey, it's been a long time.  I thought I would never write here again. Too many people said they read it and that made me feel self concious.  But, here I am, because I need a place to kind of sort things out and think things through.  I do appreciate your comments, all of you.

First of all, Gorean slaves are to be pleasing.  That's our job description, if you will.  We are specifically to be pleasing to men.  So, if you find a kajira pleasing, it does not necessarily mean she's burning to have you collar.  She may burn to serve you, in the moment, because it is her nature to serve, to please, but she is not always thinking in terms of "maybe he'll collar me". 

I say this because of late there have been instances of Masters getting sort of carried away.  And after serving them they immediately assume I want their collar.  This is just not the case. 

To start talkng to a slave who is serving you in terms of collaring her that quickly makes it vey uneasy for the slave  She does not want to anger you, or displease you. 

If the slave has a channel collar, such as tLi, perhaps it is best to approach the owner of that channel and express your interest.  The owner will know what is best for that girl.  To place that burden on a slave who only seeks to please is in some ways, unfair. 

Or, perhaps you should wait till the slave *begs* your collar because she cannot imagine being without it. 

 So, what do you think? 

Let me know. 

Oh, and it's good to be back.